Let us talk about African men

Let us talk about African men

African men are the strongest God created, most creative, handsome (not all) brilliant, innovative and above all dangerous.

We have the good and bad. When it comes to relationship, we are the most romantic (unless those who grew up in a home where there is no love)

Somethings that baffles me about African men is the way they have taken privilege as right. Years ago, men were measured by how many wives they have and hectares of land they cultivated. We grew from the barbaric idea to a more modern system (though we are still indirectly practising the old system)

We were able to remove the measurement of farming, many of us turned new pages, give our lives to God. In the bible, it says one man, one wife. As innovative as i early said we are, we decided to have 1 1/2. These days, it is a habit for men particularly those in Africa to double date. Marry and have a secret girlfriend who they spend their money on instead of concentrating on their families. Things they can’t buy for their wives will be bought for their sugar girl (Idiot)

Some men are so unbelievable that they bring the girl home, ask their wives to leave or can’t they see they have visitors?. They have taken their wives as slaves, ill treat them, all for the sake of a young girl. (What is the different between the old and the new system?) We are still in our old time where we measure our smartness on how fast we are able to get laid with different women. ( i will lash the women next)

My point is, Marriage is to be enjoyed not endured. African women are now used to the system that their husbands cheat. Some would say AS LONG AS HE DID NOT CHEAT IN MY PRESENCE, LET HIM DO IT OUTSIDE.. What nonsense! Men are so lucky that God did not make me a woman, if you sleep with another girl, i will fuck your friend..

What baffles me more is the way African men take the rude and cheating attitude abroad. (anyways, they are all sick as men) The new African men do not have a single regard for their wives. They marry them, the first 3 months will be like milk and honey (some start fight the day of the wedding) and till death do them part or the divorce, it will be a living hell.

My advise, change your ways… It is not going to help. Are you thinking of the home you are building for your children? Whatever you admire in a woman outside, tell your wife to do it for you. If you see what another woman is wearing and your wife does not have it, instead of asking the woman out because she is beautiful, make your wife beautiful. Always be proud of what you have. You made the decision to marry a woman because you found something unique in her.. If you got married because your parents were on your neck, or you thought you were getting too old, or your friends were laughing at you, then i pity the victim wife…

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Let us talk about African men